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That's why they say, in order to buy some groceries, "Let's go to souk",
Instead of saying, Let's go to a bookstore in order to buy some book."
Because of knowing well your job, you sure let no one treat you like a puppet.
You go at your own pace. You don’t rush, you don’t race nor do you compete.
When you make a mistake, you not only are rebuked and perhaps punished for it today,
You won’t hear the end of it. You’ll be remembered of it again and again until you die.
I give the impression that men are the only wicked ones, and that women are perfect.
However, some of them, when in the same position, they behave in the same respect.
All that is said about this type of man,
holds true for the same type of woman.
If she fails to seduce a man with her feminine charm,
She simply may leave him alone, doing him no harm,
Or get really violent and have recourse to a fatal arm.
Woe unto that unlucky man who lets her take his arm.
However, let's not dramatize things and give the alarm.
There is nothing to be upset about, and let's keep calm.
Many a woman, who is abused, treated by everyone all the time almost like an animal.
If one man treats her kindly, she thinks something‘s wrong with him. He is abnormal.
Many a time, when a human being is no longer oppressed, he or she reverses the roles.
He or she becomes the oppressor. He or she abuses and misuses all he or she controls.
Instead of doing something to change things, we say there’s nothing to do. That’s human nature.
However, we must not accept it as a fait accompli. We must prevent that to happen in the future.
Be loving and lovable, but free. Do not be a slave,
Too attached to the person or to the thing you love.
From now on you’re self-sufficient, self-reliant. You’re codependent no longer.
As you become day after day more and more confident, stronger and stronger.
Don't ever let yourself be at a loss, trapped and get stuck.
That is when you can neither run away nor counterattack.
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